People I know won’t pay me THAT|Changing a limiting belief
It’s not that people won’t pay you for your product-service-widget…the truth is that people you KNOW won’t pay you!
I encountered this limiting belief this past week…it was brought to my attention by some gals that are participating in a mentoring program I am facilitating.
Not only was this revelation a huge AHA moment for the participants it was a big AHA for me. Seriously if you look through your portfolio of clients you may find a few acquaintances but seriously…most of the people who are hiring you are people that you have probably met recently. Now some of them may become friends after they have hired you and you have created a relationship, but you were not close to them before they paid for your product-service-widget.
Now I am not saying to exclude everyone you know from being a potential client…but there are people that you know that will never pull out their wallet for what you are offering….so seriously…stop expecting them to do so and move on. 
Imagine preparing your sales pitch…pulling the words together that explain what you do, how you do it and lastly the price you charge for that thing you do….then heading over to visit your friend who has known you forever and knows everything about you and pitching it to them….I can hear the words now…”You charge that for what you do-sell-etc…are you crazy”!
Now imagine taking that same professional presentation to your Ideal client, that person who you know needs the product-service-widget and will benefit from what you have to offer. They are interested right from the get go…they ask questions and are genuinely interested in what you have to say…and do they question the fact that you would charge what you charge for the thing you are offering…I think not!
Let’s get this elephant out of the room right now so your friends won’t feel like they are going to get your next sales pitch and you won’t feel disappointed that they did not purchase.
A limiting belief is just that…a belief that limits you. Sometimes we can’t eliminate the belief but perhaps we can find a way around it!
I may be totally off base on this…please share your thoughts and opinions.






